Sir Rai is the Founder of the “Infamous Boys of Leather” club. He holds the titles of Ms. Gay International 1999, Mr. New Jersey Leather 2018, and American Leatherman 2018. He is deeply committed to supporting his community and has seamlessly integrated his passion for fundraising into socially conscious brands. Notably, “Asbury Infamous Apparel” benefits and raises awareness for Project R.E.A.L, an LGBTQ youth drop-in center in Asbury Park, NJ.

Sir Rai transitioned from a 30 year corporate cosmetics career to work as an HIV Prevention Specialist at The Prevention Resource Network within The Visiting Nurse Association in Asbury Park, NJ. His mission is to promote HIV prevention and other biomedical interventions and help eradicate HIV.

Sir Rai is proud Sir to Alpha boy Dave, American Leatherboy 2014, boy Kona, Ms. PrEP Jersey Shore 2024, and boy Calum.