Beyond Penetration: Front Hole Fisting for Bottoms
Dive into the intimate and powerful practice of front-hole fisting in this comprehensive workshop. Designed for both tops and bottoms, this class covers essential aspects such as negotiation, safer sex practices, technical topping skills, and effective communication for a receptive bottom.
Highlighting the importance of aftercare, the workshop will include a live fisting demonstration that emphasizes the sensual and connective nature of this practice.
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Mrs. Dee Supreme (Princess Delilah) is a Brooklyn-based advocate, educator, and Leather Woman. She is the Vice President of ONYX Pearls NY-NE and a founding member of the House of Supreme. Known as the Consent Queen—reigning respect, empowering voices, and building boundaries together.
A Certified Cuddlist and consent educator, Mrs. Dee is dedicated to fostering emotional safety and cultivating a consent of culture. Her work emphasizes practical tools and strategies for creating supportive and inclusive spaces. Mrs. Dee is passionate about empowering others through education and advocacy, ensuring every interaction is rooted in respect, care, and integrity.
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Jewel is a Philadelphia-based leatherdyke service submissive, and Woman of Drummer 2022. They bring a unique perspective as a black, queer, trans, neurodivergent kinkster, and find meaning in connecting with leatherpeople of all backgrounds and identities. They are passionate about intergenerational relationships, rare kinky book collecting, and women’s leather history. A versatile player, Jewel is a switch with a special interest in impact, electrostimulation, and fisting. Known for being willing to try most things once (or twice), Jewel approaches each scene with vulnerability, trust, and curiosity.
Queer & Trans community Chair Bondage 101
Based in NYC, Silhouette Knitter (he/him) is a sadistic rope bondage kink provider that enjoys the play of tormenting rope. He loves chair bondage because of its versatility and ability to accommodate all body types. From the floor to the air, Silhouette particularly enjoys the art of observation and response in his tying practice
Silhouette Knitter (based in NYC) is a semenawa-focused rope top with a love of endurance, torment, and restraint.
Bondage: Chairs 101 is an accessible beginner workshop that provides tools for participants an opportunity to explore restriction using everyday objects like chairs! We will cover very basic foundational ties in order to explore chairs and bondage.
Ivy Supreme, "The Kinky Herbalist," is a Wellness Advocate dedicated to using kink and herbal medicine to nurture the health of our community. Grounded in core values like loyalty, respect, and integrity, Ivy combines 15 years of expertise in wellness and counseling with certifications in herbalism from the Herbal Academy. They empower individuals to explore self-preservation through the interplay of kink practices and holistic healing, fostering physical, psychological, and emotional well-being. By integrating traditional herbal remedies and intentional kink education, Ivy supports the community in cultivating resilience and wellness.
Sven is a kinky chef passionate about everything food, kink, and sex education, with a strong commitment to decolonizing both food and sex. Sven loves explaining how everyday items found in your kitchen can be used as aphrodisiacs, enhancing intimacy and pleasure. Through their work, they blend culinary creativity with a desire to empower others to explore the intersections of sensuality and sustainability.
Slow Burn: A Fire Play and Fire Cupping Workshop
This workshop will be held in New Jersey and the address will be given 24 hours before the workshop. Please check your spam folder.
In this class, we will learn how to apply fire during fire play without burning the skin.
You will learn how to use fire wands and fire cupping safely. For pleasure or pain.
We will discuss what interests us about this kind of "play" and the benefits we can gain by playing with fire.
There will be hands-on practice and fire wands for sale.
Appetizers and an aftercare tea bar will be provided.
To ensure that folks get the most out of the workshop, this workshop is limited to 20 people.
If you attend this one you get a discount for our next workshop at this location.
Masks will be provided for those who wish to wear them but are not required.
Stay home if you are sick
testing is encouraged
Limited testing supplies for those in need
Air purifier on all floors
Artist Lounge
The Artist Lounge is open to all but we center Queer Black and Brown artists & communities. This is intended to be a comfortable and affirming space for folks to express themselves artistically, whatever that means to them, regardless of artistic level.
We recognize that everyone is an artist in their own way, and may utilize their creativity differently. We encourage all kinds of art forms. Threadwork, leather tanning, collage, abstract drawing painting, and all kinds of journaling. Please feel free to work on whatever feels right for you; intuition-based creation is encouraged.
Artist Lounge
The Artist Lounge is open to all but we center Queer Black and Brown artists & communities. This is intended to be a comfortable and affirming space for folks to express themselves artistically, whatever that means to them, regardless of artistic level.
We recognize that everyone is an artist in their own way, and may utilize their creativity differently. We encourage all kinds of art forms. Threadwork, leather tanning, collage, abstract drawing painting, and all kinds of journaling. Please feel free to work on whatever feels right for you; intuition-based creation is encouraged.
BLX _Alternative IG Live: In conversation series Daijah Flames. NY North East Bootblack 2024
This conversation will be on our IG page.
https://www.instagram.com/blx_alternative/
Daijah Flames. (pronounced Day-Jah) is a bubbly, pansexual, panromantic, polyamorous leather middle based in NJ and originally from Queens, NY. Daijah is founder of Boots and BBQ Munch which is an event that celebrates bootblacks and the art of bootblacking with fun, drinks, and community
She has shown she is service minded and has a service heart since she pledged and became a full member of Onyx Pearls NY NE where she supports her siblings by handling secretary duties such as minutes and being the handler of her sister slave akasha Eden who won Northeast M/s couple 2024.
She has been recognized for her work as a bootblack at several conference and play spaces such as Folsom Street East 2023 and 2024, Submit NYC, Low Key Kink, Sanctuary Events, IMsLBB 2023 and 2024, SheMagik Events, The ColosseumNY, NJ Leather Family
Artist Lounge art as activism
The Artist Lounge centers Queer Black and Brown artists & communities. This is intended to be a comfortable and affirming space for folks to express themselves artistically, whatever that means to them, regardless of artistic level.
Art as activism: Protest art has the power to challenge authority in ways that words cannot. Through symbols and expression, protest art often inspires people to action and builds communities. It can be used to raise awareness about social and political issues and to give a voice to marginalized groups
We may watch a short YT video about how art is used in activism, but please feel free to work on whatever feels right for you; intuition-based creation is encouraged.
RSVP
Artist Lounge
The Artist Lounge is open to all but centers Queer Black and Brown artists & communities. This is intended to be a comfortable and affirming space for folks to express themselves artistically, whatever that means to them, regardless of artistic level. We recognize that everyone is an artist in their own way, and may utilize their creativity differently. We encourage all kinds of art forms. Threadwork, leather tanning, collage, abstract drawing painting, and all kinds of journaling. Please feel free to work on whatever feels right for you; intuition-based creation is encouraged.
Artist Lounge
The Artist Lounge is open to all, but we center Queer Black and Brown artists & communities. This is intended to be a comfortable and affirming space for folks to express themselves artistically, whatever that means to them, regardless of artistic level. We recognize that everyone is an artist in their own way, and may utilize their creativity differently. We encourage all kinds of art forms. Threadwork, leather tanning, collage, abstract drawing painting, and all kinds of journaling. Please feel free to work on whatever feels right for you; intuition-based creation is encouraged.
Slow Burn: A fire wand making and cupping demo and workshop
Join us for a hands-on experience as you learn how to create your own fire wand (supplies provided). And then learn the art of fire cupping. This is a 101 workshop that is perfect for beginners/experienced folks looking to delve into the world of wand-making and cupping.
Throughout the workshop, we will discuss the appeal of this kind of "play" as well as fire safety. How not to burn your bottom (in a bad way), and how not to burn down the house. Time permitted we will break into small groups to experience what it's all about.
Although this workshop is open to all, BLX centers bringing education to the LGBTQ Black and Brown leather/kink community.
Want to watch the fireplay and cupping? $10.00
Want to make a fire wand and possibly do some fire play $40.00 all supplies provided
Artist lounge host Roz
Artist Bio:
Roze is a self-taught mixed media collage artist who discovered her passion during the global pandemic. Her work is characterized by an intuitive approach that combines elements from nature, fashion, and everyday life, creating compositions with an editorial eye.
Roze’s artistic process embraces serendipity and the beauty of imperfection. Using materials ranging from magazine clippings to found objects, she crafts unique pieces that challenge viewers to see the extraordinary in the ordinary.
Recently, Roze has expanded her practice to include printmaking, exploring the myriad possibilities this technique offers for creating standalone artworks and enhancing her collages. This new avenue of experimentation exemplifies her commitment to artistic growth.
Roze’s work is a testament to the transformative power of creativity and the joy of artistic discovery. Through her art, she invites viewers to experience the world through a lens of curiosity.
Folk-Sum
Come celebrate
Folk-Sum with BLX.
What is Folk-Sum?
An in-person invite-only event.
June 22, 2-7 pm
Fun, “Games”, Food & Conversation
Why is it invite only?
One of our members are opening their home to us. As we raise funds we hope to be able to afford a space that will be open to all in our community.
Juneteenth Black, Blue & Brown play party
Save The Date
Juneteenth
Black, Blue & Brown
Play Party
6/14/2024
8pm -12 am
Experience a different kind of liberation
The Artist Lounge
Shane aka Brown Bear Butch. has been writing and performing poetry nationally since 2013. And creates and sells poetry zines. They are a musician with interests in playing guitar, harmonica, and a bit of piano
They have a heavy background in anti-racism work & fighting for LGBTQ+ rights.
They have experience hosting skill shares about anti-racism, fundraising for gender-affirming care, jail and court solidarity support, direct action 101, as well as trans 101
~Poetry-Music-Multimedia~
IG:brownbearbutch
Banned Book Fundraiser for CJ Library
Save the date Oct. 1-7th 8:30 pm
Let freedom read.
Banned books fundraiser for the Carter Johnson Library @cj_library on IG
@blx_alternative IG Live
Join Sir Raven s they talk about and read banned books. Hop on our IG live and tell us what banned book is your favorite and why.
The Carter Johnson Library's collections include thousands of leather, fetish, S/m, kink, and alternate sexuality books, magazines, posters, art, newspapers, ephemera, and memorabilia dating back to the 1700s.
The Carter/Johnson Library is designed to put people in touch with their history by allowing them to hold it, read it, smell it, and know it.
“Never again landfill. Never again the flames.”
BLX Artist Lounge
Join us as we unwind and relax from all the June events. Art has helped clear the mind, and gives relief from world events. You will be allowed the space to create through different artistic mediums.
This is an online space with the understanding that everyone is an artist in their own right, and we all utilize creativity to navigate the world.
All art forms welcome, art journaling, doddling,crochet, knitting, collage.
Materails needed: anything you have on hand, example plan paper, colored pencils, crayons markers.
BLX members will have the opportunity to have some suplies sent to them.
Our Code of conduct:
We do not tolerate any form of phobias. If you don't know what they are, this group is not for you.
We will not tolerate any kind of isms. Again if you don't know what they are, this group is not for you.
We will not tolerate any form of shame or blame.
We will not tolerate any activity that violates the personal consent of group members.
Dyke March
Dyke March from their website:
PROTEST MARCH, NOT A PARADE.
The March is a demonstration of our First Amendment right to protest and takes place without permits or sponsors. We recognize that we must organize among ourselves to fight for our rights, safety, and visibility.
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BLX community please note the march begins in front of the Library on 5th Ave. Look for the Dykes on bikes! It ends at Washington Square Park. Because there are no barriers along the street you can leave the march at anytime you want.
Please take care. Bring water, wear comfortable footwear, and remember if you need to leave, leave. Get food, and rest.
BLX Juneteenth Potluck Picnic
Come OUT to keep the PRIDE energy going. Bring your blankets and chairs. Come break bread, and play games with the BLX community. Time and place coming soon.
BLX Pride Kickoff brunch
Celebrating 1 year of BLX.
Brunch & Learn Electro-Play with International Ms. Leather & Guest Speaker Ms. Jae Brown.
Join BLX for an afternoon of education and yummy food.
We will break bread together, and learn about electro-play facilitated by our newly sashed International Ms. Leather 2023 Liquid, where you can learn a new skill or enhance the electro-play skills you already have. We will also be sitting down for a Q&A with special guest Jae W. Brown, a Trans Non-binary musician, actress, and activist. All at a private loft in Brooklyn, NY.
A light brunch will be provided, so come with an empty stomach, open mind, and open heart. We look forward to serving you.
Tickets are available HERE in 2 Tiers, Early Bird & General Admission. Our Patreon Subscribers receive a 20% off discount.
Jesús Lebrón: Activism, Friendship & the Legacy of Queer Bookshops.
This panel discussion will host Jesús Lebrón, a Bronx-born activist for LGBTQ+ rights and former manager of the Oscar Wilde memorial bookshop. Jesús will be joined on the panel by his long-time friend and fellow activist Brendan Fay, as well as AL from the Bluestocking Cooperative Bookstore and Marisol King as moderator.
Instagram Community Conversation
Non-Binary and competing at International Mr. Leather
(IML) How does one compete in a contest where Tom of Finland is the ideal?
IMsL and Bootblack
Join us as we head to IMsLBB
Our CPO Liquid is running for the title of International Ms. Leather. Come cheer them on. Meet up with us, to enjoy a cigar, some whiskey, or just chat it up. Or find us in the Carter Johnson Library. Follow us on Instagram @ blx_alternative where we will update our shenanigans.
Blaque: A Kink & Queer BIPOC Meet Up
Join us this month at the Star Bar to connect with kinky ad queer people of color. This is an inclusive space for us, to get together, check-in, and talk about sex positivity and kink while creating community. All levels of experience are welcome. Must RSVP through the Bloom app on Instagram @ bloomcommunityapp
See you there
Owned and Operated
Liquid will be hosting a roundtable conversation on IG Live with Blactinx-Owned and/or -Supporting Kinky Business.
Community conversation
Beyond Consent: Vetting negotiation & risk profile with MrBLK (Link coming soon)
Sip, Chat Unbox
Mondays in November:
On IG, we will be doing an unboxing of some interesting devices of pleasure.
Community Conversation
In Conversation with LatinX Men in BDSM / Kink / Fetish
This conversation among 3 prominent LatinX men in the BDSM / Kink / Fetish community will shed light on how they make their mark in the scene and create space for themselves in the larger community. Providing advice and encouragement for those who think there is no space for them.
Our Code of conduct:
We do not tolerate any form of phobias. If you don't know what they are, this group is not for you.
We will not tolerate any kind of isms. Again if you don't know what they are, this group is not for you.
We will not tolerate any form of shame or blame.
We will not tolerate any activity that violates the personal consent of group members.